MONDAY, 26/2/2013.
Tonight is replacement class. Miss Zu
teaches us about problem solution essay. Before that, she divides us into 5
groups. I’m group no 2 and do pattern no 1. My patner are Athirah, Ani, Sarah,
Syafikah and Wawa. My group topic is
“Appearance over reality”. For your
information have 2 patterns for this essay.
Pattern
1:
.
Problem 1, problem 2 and problem 3 with
topic sentences.
Solution 1, solution 2 and solution 3 with topic sentences
Pattern
2:
Problem 1 and solution 1,
with topic sentences
Problem 2 and solution 2,
with topic sentences
Problem 3 and solution 3,
with topic sentences
I want share my group problem solution essays.
In era
globalization the problem about the judgement is most popular now. Judgement is
the act of judging or assessing a person or situation or event. Our mind
setting , our personal background will influences people about something bad
and lack confidence is the common problems about judgement. Thus in order to
solve these judgement, parents should give proper educate to change the
children’s perception on judge the people, increase the confidence level also
can avoid people to easily judge by their appearance.
Our
personal background very important to educate their children. According to
Teale, 1993 the parental involvement in their children’s education, the most
influential of these four elements described by Teale are the personal
background and economic background of parents. In addition, parents must be
teach our children between right and wrong. Therefore, what they learn from
their parents of the lives will impact our children for rest of their lives.
One way to
solve the problem is parents should educate their children with the proper
education. It is because the children’s behavior in their life will be
determined by how much their parents put into their life. According to Charles Desforges (2003), Parents should gives full attention and
proper education to their children due to get a significant positive effect on
children’s achievement and adjustment. It is because mostly the children will
follow what their parents do and think. If the parents think bad negative on
how they judge a people by looking their appearance the children will easily to
influenced and at the same time the mentally of the children will be negative
.Thus, the parents should think the best way on how to educate their children.
Moreover,people
tend to judge others on appearance because of their mind setting.People tend to
say that you can not judge book by it cover but we are not apply this in our
live.Such as when you meet someone for the first time you will judge that
person roughly for 10 second.This happen so naturally,without we realize we
always judge people by they looks.According to (Swami,2007) beauty and physical
appearance are importance.This show that if we meet someone that have good
looking faces or beautiful we will assume that person is a nice person or vise
verse.
Therefore,
we all have the ability to change our mind set. According to “How to
change,”(nd), to change our core inner beliefs upon which we base our view of
ourselves and of the world”. But changing our mind set is not an easy thing to
do. Fortunately, our mind-set regarding certain aspects of our lives are
malleable and are based on our choice of meaning we give to things. We must
develop a positive mind set by positive thinking together with an attitude. In
short, we cannot judge people by it’s cover or appearances.
Another problem is why people judge other on appearance
are for security reason.People are not going to admit it but this is the
reality that we must face it.People judge other because they want to make
themselves feel confident and look good to others. Based on (Mess,2007)”most
people are very worried about what other people think of them.”People view is
more important that be our self.
Hence, we have to increase the level of self confidence. All people have
their own advantage and disadvantages, so we did not have to feel embarrassed
and blame to other people to pretend yourselves. here were surely times in your
life, you felt yourself not confident enough to fight with the problems. .
According to “How to increase,”(2007), there were surely times in your life,
you felt yourself not confident enough to fight with the problems”. So, people
have to boost their confidence to avoid people judge them easily.
In
conclusion, there are many reaction of having looking on sight appearance over entity
of life. This bad behavior can affect our self by judgement from other
people.It can causes mentality and narrow mindedness thinking that may lead to
the first people judgement. It also come from secluded spectacle of family that
can be affected to this problem. Beside, lack of courageous also can affect the
judgement from people view. As the result,people cannot have a bad perceptions
towards people before they know them and parents should play their positive
role in this situation towards their children.Therefore,there are many ways to
overcome this problem.
That’s
all. See you next time. Have are nice days. Thanks
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